The BLACK Mirage: The way my favourite BLACK dress amplified, everything I was trying to tone down.

"For the longest time, BLACK was my go-to colour. It’s sleek, it’s versatile, and most importantly, it camouflages."

As someone who struggled with body image issues, I found solace in the dark shades that seemed to hide my perceived flaws. But as I've come to realize, wearing black wasn't helping me overcome those insecurities; it was merely masking them.

There’s a common misconception that black is universally slimming and flattering, especially for those with larger bodies. While it’s true that black can create the illusion of a slimmer silhouette by minimizing contrast, it doesn’t address the underlying issues that contribute to negative body image.

Instead of confronting our insecurities head-on, we often resort to covering them up with dark clothing, hoping they'll disappear along with the shadows. But the truth is, our bodies are not the problem; it's our perception of them that needs to change.

About a decade ago, at the tender age of 22, I made a conscious decision to break free from the confines of my black wardrobe. It was a small rebellion against the shame and guilt I had internalized about my body. I jumped from one spectrum to the other, yes the exact opposite of black—white.

So, the next time you reach for that trusty black outfit, ask yourself: Am I wearing this to hide my flaws, or am I wearing it because I genuinely love it? Let’s challenge ourselves to step out of the shadows and into the light, where our true beauty can shine.

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Wait for the upcoming post on the colour WHITE... Well, let's just say, it's time to explore the other end of the spectrum. Stay tuned for a journey into the world of light, brightness, and the unexpected truths it reveals.